http://gulsha.wordpress.com/2009/09/21/acceptance/#commentsThere are many times in our lives that we stop, look at the road ahead, and wonder which direction to go. For centuries scientists, poets, artists and visionaries have come to the same juncture, looking into the abyss of the unknown and searching for that light which will illuminate all of the answers. The success lies in the desire to find these answers, and ultimately make the decisions that will help us lead a long and prosperous life. You come to a point where you feel you have tried to always be the person you are from within. You follow the path which is right and you thru out think you are protected. But you realise the path which is right and positive gives you a lot of pain and agony, as it is the most difficult path to be taken? The wrong or the negative path is always fun and loads of happiness and laughter. You shed all your inhibitions, moral values and dishonesty, at the same time feel its the right or rather the in thing in todays modern society if you want to be in it. I wonder even if we decide to change our thoughts and do things which is against our consious .yet, want to be what a so called modern woman does " will that make us happy and content?" I would love to if it can change my state of mind as i too want to be happy and have a better state of mind, no emotions or feelings, no moral values, its like animals and satisfying your physical need for that very " moment". Its a thought, very hard to decide that we live in a society where the norms and values are not similar to what some of us think. But thou we have all the freedom to do what we please or makes us happy, i dont think that it would feel great the next morning to find oneself in a unknown/ or a so called friends bed. It would feel horrible and will not respect ourself for being a easy lay for any man and sick of our body. One such experience would make a person or me more depressed as most of us are too sensitive because all my life i have thrived to be a amazing wife or a girlfriend but realised that each time i have chosen the wrong man at the right time. Making " love" with passion and emotion is different from having " sex". Its not that a woman has no physical needs. but the more you encounter situations of feeling used you begin to feel lost and disinterested in life as there is no respect, or your emotions are not valued. It feels that one does not fit anywhere in this society. No man needs honesty, loyalty, sincerety or emotions. The moment you are a person with these feelings a man senses "danger". The requirement or the need is for a free sex, as friends, with no attachment or commitment. Its in a simple way "free sex" where if you visit a brothel one will have to pay, rather preach a new living called "modernism" , which is misinterpreted according to what suits the other , yet not feel guilty. It will definetely give momentary pleasure but then , a person who involves in such activity is worst than a sex worker as "God" will support a down trodden woman as she does that for her living or been forced into such activitys against her will. A woman or a man who does it for his/ her pleasure is considered worst than a animal as it is not civilised and cultured. Such sins are not forgiven and one is answerable to "GOD". Thou we are supposed to be non judgemental, yet we should not hurt any one of the either gender as it is a crime committed intentionally. Life is not about living like animals, we are civilised and live in a society where one needs to respect the other persons view. The more you come accross such experiences you begin to lose trust in human and turn towards the divine power to protect you from such experiences and guide you towards the right path.The destination is never as important as the journey. In these very difficult times, we are all looking for answers and looking for ourselves. Beyond the Secret holds the tools to take the idea of what is preached, and puts it into practice in everyday life. That is the time we need to think positive." Power of Positive Thinking" and "The Power of the Divine " is more than just a mantra, it\'s a way of life. It\'s a mind-body awakening, an answer to all of those questions and the path laid before us. All we need to do is unlock the gift that we all have inside and take that journey. It teaches us never hurt anyone of the either gender, respect each others view in life and not give any false/ pretentious promises which is for the moment. As you will be paying for your sins .. as " Mother" will make sure that one pays for every sin commited.. One needs to trust in the divine power tremendously , no matter what you go thru."MOTHER" is always there to protect you, guide you and loves you unconditionally. As every relation is not permanent, the only relation which will last until the end is your connection with the "Divine power".. and "Positive Thinking"..
